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You Will Never Be "Ready"

You know what,
 I don't care who you are or where you are but if you are letting other people tell you who you are, that is not right. You define yourself. You choose who you are. You can create the life you dream of, you can have the career that you want, you can be the person you aspire to be. Do not EVER let other people tell you who you are. You do you. Be bold. Wear what you want to wear, do what you want to do, eat what you want, go where you want. Don't let the world keep you stuck in a tiny box. There is so much you could do if you just went for it. You'll be afraid of course, we all are, being scared is part of the process. Taking risks is part of it.
 Let me just tell you something someone else taught me, YOU WILL NEVER BE "READY". We all make that excuse, "well, I'm just going to wait to pursue that until I'm ready."
You. Will. Never. Be. "Ready"
 Face it. You know you won't. I know you won't. I know I won't. Thi…


It's challenge time!! 

This month I challenge you to be more Generous
both in giving your time and your resources. Help the people around you. When they ask for some of your time, don't search for an excuse (i am so guilty of this). We're all busy, but don't ever get too busy to spend time with people, especially friends and family. Time is a gift, use it wisely, but don't be so afraid to give it out. Think of someone other than yourself, and sacrifice. And who knows maybe they will do the same for you someday when you need it.

I hereby challenge you to be more generous, especially with your time.

Do you accept?


I Am Blessed

This past week I have been really realizing more and more how blessed I am. I have got so much in my life that I should be thankful for.

 But of course, I am human so I am always concentrating on the negative things, and how much better my life should be. I feel entitled to perfection. Like I deserve it. Which is absolutely not true. I do not deserve anything. I sin and make mistakes, and hurt things, and am stupid. But in our generation, we are raised to think we are entitled to things ever since we were little. We have to take control of our minds and focus on what's really important. No one wants to live negatively, no matter how much they might think they do, deep down no one wants that. We're not made to live like that either. We have been blessed so much, with even just the little things. Life itself is a blessing.

I am trying more and more to be thankful, and to praise my creator for the things he provides. It is so easy to forget the good things, just like it's eas…


So, earlier today I was going through some old photo's and video's and I realised something more than ever, so I thought I would share.

Living in the moment is SO important.
Nothing is by accident. You met that person for a reason. You did that embarrassing thing for a reason. You lost something for a reason. You grew separate ways with someone for a reason. Nothing you do is every on "accident" even though sometimes it seems that way or we make it seem that way. Everything that happens to you in your life has been preplanned by God. It's mind blowing to think about that. All those funny/embarrassing moments I have in my photo gallery I can not get enough of because they make me laugh and smile. At the time, I thought they were the worst thing ever of course. * sigh * Such a drama queen. But everything I have ever done happened to me for a specific reason and purpose. I think I've talked about this subject recently on my blog, but I wanted to approach it from …