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Know Yourself

You are a smart, important, individual human being with likes and dislikes, traits, habits, hobbies, and preferences. So why don't you get to know yourself?
Knowing ourselves is an important part of making our lives what we want to them to be, which is ultimately happy. If we don't know ourselves we can't fill our time with what we know if going to fulfill us and bring us what we want. We first have to know what it is we want. A successful career? Okay, but what does success mean to you exactly? Etc. 
"What do you want out of life" is a daunting question and one that we can't really know the answer to unless we first know ourselves and what it is we like and dislike. We can't decide "this is what I am going to do for the rest of my life" without knowing whether or not we actually like doing that thing. Take the time to get to know yourself. Know what you like. Know the kinds of people you can tolerate and the kinds of people you cannot. Remember…
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There's a Reason for Everything

It's hits me once and awhile, and i cherish these moments, why something happpened to me and what i learned from it. I realizse why i went through something, or why i did something even when i had no idea at the time why i should do that. I love it when my memorises come back to me. Something i haven't thought of since it happened and i didn't even know i had that memory.
 That's how i know everything happens for a reason, and that's how i can believe that. Becuase i know that someday in my future i will realize why today happened. I will discover the reason for today even though i might not see it right now. I will remember the choices i made today and learn from them and learn why i chose them, and ultimately learn more about myself. 
There is a reason for whatever it is that is in your life right now. You might be doing really well and so many things are good and like they're falling into place, or you might feel like everything is falling apart and like lif…

Better Days Will Come

Not every day is going to be your day. Not every weekend is going to be fun. Not every night out is going to be perfect. Not every relationship is going to work out and that is okay. You're allowed to have off days, you're allowed to be completely out of it, you're allowed to make stupid impulsive decisions that you'll regret later, it's what makes us human. It's part of the process of life.

 If every day were perfect we wouldn't have any appreciation for them. Instead, when some days suck and then the next day is better we are so thankful for that better day. For the sunlight. For the encouragement. Sometimes we're so deep into bad days it seems like good ones are never going to come to us, but then when that good day/week finally does make it, and it will trust me, we are so grateful for it. So much more grateful than we would be if we hadn't had those bad days first.

Bad is necessary if we want good. That's just how the world works. Nothing c…