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There's a Reason for Everything

It's hits me once and awhile, and i cherish these moments, why something happpened to me and what i learned from it. I realizse why i went through something, or why i did something even when i had no idea at the time why i should do that. I love it when my memorises come back to me. Something i haven't thought of since it happened and i didn't even know i had that memory.
 That's how i know everything happens for a reason, and that's how i can believe that. Becuase i know that someday in my future i will realize why today happened. I will discover the reason for today even though i might not see it right now. I will remember the choices i made today and learn from them and learn why i chose them, and ultimately learn more about myself. 
There is a reason for whatever it is that is in your life right now. You might be doing really well and so many things are good and like they're falling into place, or you might feel like everything is falling apart and like lif…
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 "Every experience has a purpose"

Even when we feel like we're not getting anywhere or we're not getting anything out of life. Every day to day experience we have teaches us things when we don't even realize it. Every experience, no matter how mundane, has a purpose in your life. Why we experience things matters. Every interaction was for a reason. No day you live goes waisted. Each day has meaning even when it feels purposeless. I encourage you to remember, whatever you experience ultimately is for your benefit. In the long run, everything is for your benefit. 

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